Crowns, Horns, and Thrones
A friend repeated a phrase back to me that I’d used many years ago. My phrase or sentiment was that I had to take care of myself. That I needed certain things out of a relationship and if those needs...
View ArticleI’m Picking Daisies
After watching the season finale of Sons of Anarchy, season 6, I think I’ll hold on tightly to my uncertainty. My inability to make a decision seems like a blessing compared to crazy head long rush of...
View ArticleI’m Not Jealous
While sitting in the waiting room at the doctors office, I had a funny conversation. HGTV was showing a couple buying a new home. This house was too little. That one was too old. None seemed just right...
View ArticleSpace Clearing
I was once into Space Clearing or Energy clearing, convinced there was stale energy in the corners and dark spaces of my home. Don’t laugh or shake your head. There is something to this. It’s not...
View ArticleYou Can’t Bottle Beauty So Live Now
Beauty 6 (Photo credit: Leah Makin Photography) Why is it when I see beauty I think I need to own it? And when I think of owning something I become distressed because I can’t afford the object of...
View ArticleThe Critic’s Corner
learning (Photo credit: Anne Davis 773) The issue with letting the critic in, is that I forget to show him out when it’s time to be creative again. I want to present a certain face so I can get the...
View ArticleIn This Light
Before you repaint your living room, my advice is to always get a big enough sample to try out on the real wall at home. When I was redecorating my home, I picked out many different colors and had...
View ArticleAfraid to Say No
emotion (Photo credit: ro_buk [I'm not there])I’m not afraid of love. But I’m afraid of loving. I am afraid of loving someone so much that I can’t say no for fear of hurting them, because it doesn’t...
View ArticleUp
Change….. (Photo credit: B Gilmour.) Change is a lot of work. I’ve update my life and restarted more times than I want to think about. Packing, moving, unpacking. I went through a 5 year period in...
View ArticleMy Version of Confirmation Bias
I did something really stupid over the last 3 or 4 months. I hesitate to tell it because it seems so embarrassingly obvious now. And I bore you with the upfront explanation because I’m vain. Yeah, I...
View ArticleYour Life is Unfinished
Life is only incomplete and unfinished business. Your life is unfinished. My life is unfinished. Everyone’s life is incomplete. I was thinking this because I was mentally checking my list of things I...
View ArticleMy Attitude? I Blame Westerns
I watch the AMC show, Hell on Wheels and I often smile at the lengths the character Cullen Bohannon goes to hold to his morality. He will do whatever it takes to get the job done, whether it’s legal or...
View ArticleThorns Before Blooms
I’m not sure if it’s truth or just sometimes true, but I’ve heard the saying, It’s always darkest before the dawn. When I was younger, my favorite time of the day was right before the sunrise....
View ArticleThe Rhythm of Life
In yoga, movements are measured by breath. Breathe in as you raise your arms, breathe out as you fold forward. Yoga is not about bending your body into a pretzel so you can impress someone. Yoga is...
View ArticleDoes the Dog Walk You?
Walking a dog is supposed to be good for your health. What they don’t say is what type of dog. I had a dog, a 100 pound German Shepherd dog, that was difficult to walk. She pulled at her leash until...
View ArticleThe Passion of Hate and Love
There are old relationships that I feel scratching to get out of me, like a chick escaping from an egg. Or maybe I scratch to get out of them and their mental hold. I want to be over them, but they...
View ArticleWants, Desires, and Actions
There is an inherent order to life. It’s as old as the earth herself. Desire plus response equals fulfillment. A baby’s cry causes a mother to feed her baby. Want plus action equals satisfaction. It’s...
View ArticleUnder Pressure
You know that feeling you get when someone is watching over your shoulder? Or, you say you can sink a basket from the free-throw line? No pressure, right? Oh the deadline is Friday? For all of the...
View ArticleI’m Not Good
For goodness’ sake is an old phrase we’ve probably all heard. Being good, what does it mean? And by being good, am I denying myself in order to placate someone else? This is all my opinion, but being...
View ArticleLive Today
I was reading in a recent More Magazine about how I can add this vest over an ordinary casual/evening dress and make into a work-appropriate dress. Ideas sprouted, budded, and bloomed in my head. How...
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